I have a friend( lets call him X) who is having problems with his live in girlfriend, who he happens to have two children with.. He calls and states" My girlfriend is driving my crazy she becomes very abusive and is beginning to jump in my face cursing me out". He never cheated on her so that's not what this arguments are about. He hesitates to leave because of his children. He's a good father and is willing to do anything to keep the peace. It's truly not a happy environment for them or the children. He suggest that he leave the house which he owns . Instead of paying child support he would pay the mortgage and he would find a place to live. What would you suggest he do? Need your comments
leave her...................!! point blank! file for joint custody............If shes that abusive then its time to get legal advice...
ReplyDeleteFirst, before any drastic move, your friend and the mother of his children should try counseling. If he truly cares about her, and his relationship with his children it is worth the time and hard work that therapy requires.
ReplyDeletei agree with Anonymous. Leave. If she's abusive with him and yells i couldn't imagine how she is with the kids. : ( Calm and "cool" not. File for joint custody. I wouldn't want to leave the kids in her sole custody. I feel for them. is she very wicked? do yu know her?
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